Alexandre Jules Marie Edouard Larcade

With deep sorrow, we announce the passing of Alexandre Jules Marie Edouard Larcade, known simply as Alex to those who loved him most. Born in Kingston, Ontario, Alex graced the world with his remarkable presence on November 8, 1989, and left it, too soon, on November 18, 2024 after a brave and lengthy battle with numerous complications caused by Mitchondrial disease.

The family of Alexandre Jules Marie Edouard Larcade extends their heartfelt gratitude to the many individuals whose knowledge, compassion, and unwavering support made a profound difference during Alex’s journey.

Alex is survived by his devoted and loving mother Anne Axler Larcade. He will be dearly missed by his father Dante Larcade DeMoustier, stepmother Tamar Mesrobian, his cherished and devoted brother Emile Larcade and his wife Melisa Morgan, half-brother Adrien Larcade, and half-sisters Lilit and Alizée Larcade DeMoustier. His beloved and devoted Aunt Aimee Axler there for so much time the last 8 months, and a circle of cousins who will forever carry his memory close to their hearts.

To know Alex was to experience joy, curiosity, and a touch of magic. From an early age, Alex radiated kindness and a unique brilliance that made him unforgettable. With a heart as expansive as the sky, he embraced life with an open mind and an adventurous spirit.

A true empath, Alex had a gift for connection, whether it was healing through Reiki, forging a bond with animals, or bringing people together with his infectious humor. After a fateful meeting with Dr. Patch Adams, Alex found his calling in spreading laughter and love, often asking curious questions like, “Hi, how are you? What do you do?” Or making them laugh sometimes with a joke or a belly laugh itself that bridged gaps and warmed hearts.

His love of colors, particularly blue and yellow, and his ability to see and feel the world through a unique lens were astonishing. His confidence to advocate for himself and others on social issues, brought a unique vibrancy to his perspective on life. Alex had extraordinary gifts, from his autism as a visual thinker or photographic memory for numbers seeing them as patterns, to an intuition that felt almost prophetic. 

Alex’s love of music was significant but also a form of communication at times. He would often express his emotions or moods through playing you a particular song with lyrics. 

His sharp wit made him a delightful companion, while his knack for kindness made him a quiet hero.

Alex’s story was one of embracing individuality, finding beauty in the extraordinary, and making the world a little brighter for everyone he encountered. He was a protector of lost animals, a bringer of joy, loved helping those less fortunate, and a shining example of what it means to live with purpose and heart. 

Our sincere thanks go to the exceptional team at Groves Memorial Hospital in Fergus, including Dr. C. Muldoon (Attending Physician) Dr. C. Lund (Palliative Care) charge nurses Jenn and Heather, and nurse Daniel in particular, whose dedication and care brought comfort and dignity to Alex from March through November. 

We are also deeply grateful to the food service team and all the hospital staff who contributed to his well-being.

To Janet Klees, a cherished member of Alex’s care circle, we are forever thankful for the friendship, perspective, and unparalleled love and respect she offered throughout this journey. Your wisdom and kindness were a beacon of hope for us all.

Our deepest appreciation goes to Joanne and Jim Kilbourne and their family, who never judged and always embraced Alex for the unique and beautiful person he was. Their love and steadfast support of Anne during this time are beyond words.

Finally, to the extraordinary caregivers who stood by Alex and Anne, both at home and in the hospital, with unwavering commitment and love: you are our angels. The bond, learning, and devotion you brought to every moment of Alex’s care touched our hearts and carried us through until his final moment. We cannot thank you enough.

Alex became a strong advocate for inclusion and diversity, autism services, health care, home care accessibility, and mitochondrial disease.

In his memory, let us remember to spread kindness, laugh freely, and see the world through the lens of curiosity and compassion, just as Alex did. To understand different is not less! 

Details for all of the funeral proceeding to follow. 

In lieu of flowers, Alex’s wishes were for donations to a foundation being created in his name to carry on his advocacy; or Groves Memorial Hospital Palliative Care (Donate Here), Groves Memorial Hospital Granite Green Unit Acute Care (Donate Here); or organizations, Mito Canada (Donate Here), MitoAction (Donate Here), Durham Association for Family Resources and Support DAFRs (Donate Here), or causes that bring joy to others, in honor of Alex’s generous spirit.

Alex will be forever loved, deeply missed, and always remembered. 

His legacy was very important to him and this work will continue in his name, his face and his story we elevate, to make the world a better place.